There is a mortgage and I am paying the mortgage. He gives me money every month to "pay the bills" which does include mortgage. But, there is an apartment too & that has been payed with combined money too. I have had no access to that apartment, so technically the money paid for that was HIS and the money to pay our mortgage was MINE.

So, I don't know what that means, really.

I too worry about refinancing & being able to afford a new mortgage on my own.

New fears to deal with.

Still would like advice about child visitation.


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.