There is a mortgage and I am paying the mortgage. He gives me money every month to "pay the bills" which does include mortgage. But, there is an apartment too & that has been payed with combined money too. I have had no access to that apartment, so technically the money paid for that was HIS and the money to pay our mortgage was MINE.
So, I don't know what that means, really.
I too worry about refinancing & being able to afford a new mortgage on my own.
New fears to deal with.
Still would like advice about child visitation.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.