Hahah Wonka you crack me up. I like being able to keep somethings on the downlow. I worry I've shared too much public as it is. Alternative universe is "private" from personal life too. I haven't seen any crapper stories yet, but anxiously awaiting my first now that you mentioned it.
There is an ow2 and 3 and 4. 1-4 all PA. I know of two additional EAs, 5 & 6. I have suspecions of PA 7 & 8, but no evidence on those two. #3 and #6 seem to be completely out, and have been for several months. #5 is in a new relationship, so likely out. OW2 is who he hooked up with in 2010 for limited physical. I found that out after ow1 who started mid 2012. Ow2 has been sporadic encounters during business trips. My guess is he has been in replay 3 years now with this last year being very intense replay.
I have no proof of ow2 hookup on this last business trip, just the plan to and the shaving. I do know that he lied about return flight and saw ow1 for a few hours. No idea what that visit entailed.
My game play has slowed. Back to pretty dim. Today he is anxiously engaging me, talking to me none stop, like if he stops ill leave the room. I was gone most of the day. He spent most of the day with my dad, helping my family. He asked to have friends over tonight if I would be there and i said okay.
He shaved again this afternoon He brought me multiple gifts back from his trip (rare even before bd) He was talking "us" future around me and in convo with my dad He told me a bunch of stuff he talked about with my dad which made H really happy. Like they were great friends. Dad and adult son. My dad knows to stay out of this and any talking about me and H. Several things my dad said, meant a lot to H that he would share them and talk about them with him.
So everything as clear as driving in the rain.
M38,H39 M:16Y BD:8/12 OWDB:11/12 S:11/12-5/13 "Temp" home:6/13 OW dropped:9/13 "I love you":12/13 H ring on:2/14 Depression back:5/15 "I'm done:" 7/15 H moved out: 3/16 H moved back: 12/16 Working on us: 3/17