well Bright, my H is also signed up with a dating site, but as far as I know has not used it to date anyone. I know because of the charge on the credit card. He told me that he likes to browse dating sites, including that sexy Russian site advertised on TV, without signing up, grrr. I would not read too much into it, just more MLC craziness. You should especially not blame yourself for sending a cordial email. I know these MLCers are nuts, but "I hope you have a nice weekend" would NOT throw him over the edge.

Believe me, I was SO surprised to hear RT giving my H a Russian language lesson. I always wondered what they have to talk about for hours every day. Now I know that they do more than just tell each other how much they love each other LOL! Of course, for all I know she could have been teaching him how to say "I love you darling RT and promise to divorce Linda" LOL!

There is nothing wrong with you staying with the newcomers forum, Bright, if you aren't exactly sure if your H is in MLC.

PS I have snooped too, and always swear I won't do it anymore as the things I learn always break my heart. But sometimes a person is so in the dark and just needs to have a little bit of light on the situation.


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17