My husbands childhood is complex...bio dad walked out when he was 5. Mom remarried when he was 8 to a usually great guy, but one who when H was 16 left his mom for 1.5 years and was with another woman. He reconciled with his wife and they're strong as ever. DH's mom emotionally spoiled him. Big time. Nothing was ever his fault, she babied him, never forced him to be accountable, etc.
Me: 26 H: 28 T:8 M:5 D:2 BD:4/1/13 Separated 6/6/13 Filed separation 6/21/13 Waiting for D papers to be served, H says filed