You need to take this opportunity and work on yourself. We can't change them but we can change ourselves. Til this day I have no idea why my husband walked out on me and I don't think he really knows. My husband grew up with a mother that did not stay and try to work things out with anyone or anything. See if she didn't like her dog anymore, she would have it put to sleep and if she didn't like her husband, she walked out. So my husband grew seeing that and the thought that was the thing to do but he is learning that you can't do that especially when you have a family involved. I hope he keeps thinking that way. What kind of child hood did your husband have? Not that is an excuse for his behavior but it might give you some insight.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)