Ruby, when I read about your conversation with your H, I was mad at him first for telling you about his xgf and a new date. Then I was made at you for tolerating this from your H. Well, it seems that I’m getting on the same boat here. Just found out that my H signed up on a dating site… Still trying to process how it makes me feel. I went from a shock, to sadness, to feeling sorry for myself, to confirming to myself that I need to move forward, and finally back to calm state of mind feelings. And this all within an hour, not bad, ha.
So, let me express my admiration for you again. Yes, this is tough, but you are one strong and compassionate woman. Your H is rewriting the history and his feelings. It might also be one of the ways to test the waters…
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
