Ruby this is very interesting to me: "I assumed after reading letter that I "found' that H really wanted xgf back, that she had been the one staying over etc etc and none of that was true." I'm a great one for jumping to conclusions too. For example, I assumed that the 2 or 3 hours my H spends on skype with the Tramp every day consists of interesting discussions about current affairs, food, culture, etc, and of course, declarations of undying love and plans for their future life together.
Well I just got home (I DID get myself a treat Limbo thanks ) and H probably didn't hear me drive up, he usually closes his door when they speak (probably so I won't wander in again, RT flipped out like a crazy woman the two times she actually saw me on the computer video screen). I can hear them, and she is defintely giving him a lesson in speaking Russian. What......I am SO SO surprised!!! No wonder he says talking to her gives him a headache!
I'm glad I saved you the money for that flirty text e-book Bright. It IS a good book, just not for right now. If and when it is appropriate for us to pursue our Hs a bit, I'll take detailed notes and give them to you.
You write nearly perfect English. But your journal would be for just you. No one else would see any spelling or gramatical errors so you COULD concentrate on content. I'm going to try it!
I'm sorry you don't get a lot of responses. You post on many threads and have many friends who love you Bright. How could anyone think a woman who takes pole dancing lessons for exercise is boring?!
But maybe J is right and more people would answer on MLC than Newcomers? You could try starting your next thread there. Cadet was the one who advised me to switch over. You are definitely not a newcomer anymore!
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17