Hey Christine-
I always love reading your posts, you're such a good storyteller! Not to make light of your sitch, but you always make it interesting and entertaining.

Sounds like what happened is the aliens temporarily took over H, but you were able to get him back before they did too much damage! Seriously though, it sounds like he might be having a bout of depression? All the sleeping is a big indicator. It's really too bad he won't seek help/meds for that. Do you know anything about natural/herbal remedies? Maybe he wouldn't mind taking one of those?

I think it's great that you are staying positive and keeping an open mind. Just keep doing what you're doing Christine!!