Linda, I agree with T, as I always do. It is time to do something a little different.

Time to move forward in your life a bit more. Not as a tactic, though, it could have the same affect, ya know?

Nothing wrong with him seeing you are not waiting around to see what happens with this trip, right?

We do not live too far apart. Would love to meet up with you one day. I need some GAL myself these days.

So, get the mindset that he is going to do what he is going to do, but, you are living your life.

You do not owe him any explanation. Just come and go as you please.

You have better things to do than watch him run like a puppy when he gets a text. smile