Lost, So sorry for your situation. I'm shocked that a man would do this to his wife while she is pregnant with his child. I read through your sitch and didn't really see a reason he feels this way? Maybe I missed it. I saw the ILYBNILWY so maybe that's it. I'm kinda in the same situation in that my W said the love but not in love thing and our youngest is now only 10 months but she has her own place now and we share the kids 50/50. I'm only a few months ahead of you so not much advice to offer but you seem to be doing the right things. Ill follow your sitch and send prayers your way.
M:33 W:32 Married:8 Together:10 S:5,4 and 8 months BD: 4/1/13 W move out day: 5/4/13 ILYBNINWY,WAS. No talk of wanting to save relationship