Well holy cow Ruby, I just found your new thread, and wow I sure missed a lot. That love letter must have been a punch in your gut. But like Bug and Wonka's dad, I found passionate emails from my H to his first EA, and to his current Tramp EA/PA. It hurts, especially to read the lies they say about us, right? But those relationships are based on crap, built on sand, lust and infatuation. Your relationship with your H is built on over 17 years of friendship and love. I truly believe Ruby, that once he comes out of this MLC induced insanity, when he graduates from MLC High, he will realize that not only are you his best friend, but the one person that he loves most in the world. It seems as if he is making steps in that direction.

Remember rH's thread, the hell her H put her thru returning back to his replay activities. And what Wonka wrote "And would you know that my father and stepmother did reconcile after all that drama!? Yep...they did. So hold on to that thought, Ruby."

I'm glad that your H chose you over xGF. In time, his new OW will force him to make the same choice. Hang in there Ruby, you ARE extraordinary. And your H knows it!


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17