The hardest decision - need advice, please!

[RosaLinda]

well maybe you feel better because you know where you stand, lots better than being in limbo. So now you can make a clear plan for yourself. Did you read the Divorce Remedy book? Do you have a DB coach or MC? I was planning to try LRT but my DB coach said it is too early. But I guess if your W is living apart from you and is seriously pursing D, it's time.

Maybe some of the vets could help you here, I am just muddling thru my H's MLC myself, but sort of assumed you should not answer voice mail? Not sure.