I am reading DB now along with a book called "I love you but I am not in love with you" that both of similar paths. We are on day 6 with no contact, I have seen a few shared posts in facebook, but nothing direct and nothing related to our sitn. I have not posted anything (exercising the 180), eventually we must talk due to finances, bills, etc etc, I just need to be prepared at this moment to employ the right technique to convince her to work with me to fix our M.
Still full of ups and downs, I walk alone through a 4 bedroom house while feeling and seeing all we have built together only to have it implode on me is almost unbearable. Still have not told my siblings or mother about the breakup, too embarrassing at this point and too painful.
Just wistful today hoping she will contact me at the right time.