Hi lost, I agree with adinva, I think it would be nice of you to text your H happy birthday, but don't be upset or worry about if or what he responds. I'm glad you are getting to spend this quality time with your grandmother, and I'm sure it means the world to her that you are there right now! Keep your focus on her while you are there, and not your H or the lab. If you brought DB with you, try to read some more of it while you're away. Good luck with your sitch!
Me: 27 H: 27 Together: 11, M: 3 S 2 BD: 06/24/13 Living together H: EA - unknown current status Read: DB, 5LL (slowly reading DR) Back and forth we go...