Dear (((((((((Christine))))))))))))), I'm so sorry to hear that you had a mis-hap. I heard something similiar to those words a few weeks ago myself. However, I was not nearly as far along as you have gotten.

I'm glad to hear that you seem to have rendered some clear thinking on his part but I have to ask, in your "fantasy" world, does H see "every"thing in there as fantasy or some as real? I know that you have made some other requests in this world but is he really taking it in?

I guess I want to be sure that his mind is not playing part of the fetish and his heart is being true to you with his answers. Can you tell the difference?

You have done an excellent job of DBing and the proof is in the pudding since he didn't move out in Feb as mentioned earlier. Let's look back on your sit and see what has changed since you turned the corner until now. Did anything drastic happen? Did you (I doubt it) slip back into any "old" ways? What about the changes in your career, could that have any factor in his comments?

Just trying to give you some things to think about to see what was different when he brought this up. But I'm sure you have combed this area and are already planning your next move to get him back on track further.

Is it too fresh to ask him to come to C and discuss the issues about the R? Or is there some other way you can talk to him? I would advise starting slow on one issue and then move forward. Tread lightly but keep up that great DB attitude you've always had! You Go GIRL!!!! Tootles......

Karen