To little Too late

[adinva]

I think it's worth noting, with all this talk of happiness and sacrifice, that whatever reason you've got your spouse deciding to stay (and be unhappy) for the sake of the kids...is a chance for you to make real change in yourself and possibly change your future together. DB could actually help turn your marriage around.

I think while you're committed to trudging through life together, on your own privately you could take the opportunity to become someone only a fool would leave. Even just the ability to detach yourself from your spouse's words and actions would make a world of difference. I would urge you to DB for your own sake.