Hey Christine-
Just catching up on your thread, looks like you had an eventful couple days, but handled it in typical awesome Christine fashion!!

I notice with my H that when he is in the midst of a particularly bad depressive episode, he is more gloomy and cranky and just generally not fun. Daggers get thrown during this time, and lots of walls seem to be up during this time too. So maybe this is similar with your H?

Don't lose sight of all the progress you've made, it's really been remarkable so far!! Just continue to surround yourself and H with love and positive energy vibes. And Christine, whatever you do, don't start assuming anything about OW. You know this will only drive you crazy.