I'm done. He called last night and said never mind, he doesn't want to go to therapy on Thursday. The appt that just 24 hours before he was adamant HE be the one to schedule because it was "symbolic".
He insists it's not me, it's him. I've been a remarkable wife and mother. That I've been more patient than anyone else would ever be. That I'm taking no baggage into my next relationship. He's got demons in his head, it's all him. My only mistake was marrying the wrong man. He's told me that 100 times in the last 4 months.
So, there you have it. 15 years, 3 kids. Ends with a it's not you, it's me speech. Over the phone.
