As I think you know, my H goes off gambling practically every free moment. And, I suspect that at least some of these times OW is with him.
And that all makes me so angry with my H.
So angry that I don't want to be nice to him. I don't want to care. And sometimes, I really don't care. And I feel foolish too, to continue behaving in a loving manner while his manner to me is anything but loving.
And sometimes TVS, when I'm considering throwing things at his head, I think of you. And I think, if TVS can do all those incredible kind and unconditional-loving things, then I can too.
Or at least I can try, for today.
Tomorrow however, I might be throwing things.
You are a champion.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
