Originally Posted By: LindaM
I forgot to ask -- I agree to that I should adhere to very limited contact during H's Russian trip. But he'll be over there for our wedding anniversary. Does that deserve a text?


I'd have to say probably not because it most likely would look like pursuit to your H. And truly, it will be your 39th anniversary and as such "deserves" way more than a text sent while H is with OW. Is this the thread with the pants leg analogy?

I'm so sorry Linda frown Your H is being a huge ass. (((hugs)))

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.