But moving means I'm unable to defend my home from OM. I'm so lost right now
It's pretty standard advice to NOT move out of your own home. It may seem tough, but it's standard advice for a reason.
-PM (Sat@00:17)
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.