SP I am so sorry what u are going thru. My heart hasn't let go either. I love my H. But, I felt the ultimate act of love was to let him go. Completely.
It wasn't really what I wanted at all. BUt, it was necessary to save myself and to give myself HOPE for the future. My H doesn't love me any more. There is another woman in his heart. This kills me-absolutely kills me.
But, if I believe I can be happier than I've ever been w/o him and that my future holds wonderful things, then I can move forward. I can and I am.
You need to stop talking to her. NC!! When you are ready you will want to drop the rope FOR YOU!
What if u knew there was another woman out there just waiting for u to love her and to love u back with all her heart. Knowing that your W is unlikely to change her path. What if she recognized you for all that u are and all that u have to give?
But first u have to heal and accept that your M is over. Detach!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
