She dropped the bomb at the end of September, we had a brief reconcile in November but it lasted about two weeks. Since then things only got worse. We don't even talk anymore. She lied to me, involved friends and parents who she either lied to or told half truths. We fought and things got worse. I'd go from fighting about the dishonesty to at times forgiving everything and taking the blame for everything including the EA. Those were the times when I begged. I really messed up and now we don't even speak and she is EA and PA with this new guy and we haven't spoke at all in months and when we last spoke it was an argument with me pleading and reasoning. Every communication via text or email has been more of the same. Now we don't speak at all and it has been several months.


together 7+yrs
Married 3
Me 33
W 33
no kids
BD 9/12
MC 9/12
W leaves MC 10/12
W moves out 11/12
Divorce 2/13
W moves 5/13
NC 05/13
D final 8/13