Thanks dmr. I felt like a db failure. I'm sure that there were things that I could have said that would have been more effective but was, as usual, at a loss. On the positive side, I did remember what to say when he danced around the subject of D.
I haven't made it through all of your threads but I have to say WOW, you have been through a LOT and for so many years.
It sounds like you're settling down a bit so keep working on yourself and try to be as patient as you can with your w. It's terribly hard to juggle all of this while trying to keep a PMA. So many emotions to deal with.
Thank God for this board. I come here as often as possible to read and learn from others' situations and what works for them.
I'm still at a loss as to what to do from here on. Thanks for stopping by with your comment.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama