You are right subguy.
After M, we (both spouse) forgot how to live life. Too preoccupied with making a better living and caring for the kids. Just didn't have enough time for ourselves.
That I suppose creates resentment towards oneself over time.
Thanks for helping me realize this.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet