You are right subguy. After M, we (both spouse) forgot how to live life. Too preoccupied with making a better living and caring for the kids. Just didn't have enough time for ourselves. That I suppose creates resentment towards oneself over time. Thanks for helping me realize this.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet