subguy, just letting you know I am very impressed with the work you have done on yourself, and that I can accept and understand how hard it is to let go of 23 years of marriage and co-dependency. I am not at your level, but slowly getting there.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.