well, everything is about the same here. I still have good and not so good days. That is to be expected. I am focusing on me instead of my situation now, I wish I would have just focused on me earlier instead of my wife, ah well... that water is past the bridge now. I now see the wisdom from the vets of getting out of the way of our spouses and work on us, way to much energy was spent worrying about her.
I found several Non Violent Communication groups in my area... I did not know they existed and the kicker is they are free to attend. Guess I found another GAL opportunity lol.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.