oh Lord I'm sorry, that's rough. NY is a no-fault state now. But just because she retains an attorney, that does not necessarily mean she'll file papers. And even if she files, that does not necessarily mean she'll she'll go thru with it. How long ago was the cc charge?

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
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