Remember though trying180 my sitch is really hard because she is so far away, 900 miles. Which means we dont see each other at all. So its going to be difficult to show her 180. But as you said she would at some point start initiating contact and indeed she has. I dont know if it means anything but I guess time will tell. And because she has her own place and even a parttime job it may be next to impossible to have any get back together break throughs which is really what LBS's are hopeful for. It's good you get to see your WAS I think that gives a real advantage to showing the 180. And I wish you all the best in your efforts.Your H just may be on his way back to you but I also understand it's anyone's guess. I plan on writing here for the forseeable future and hopefully there will be something to add to DBing when such a distance is betwwen the two spouses.
