Need help detaching

[chl0901]

Hi lost, I was just catching up on your sitch and wanted to send you a hug and some support. I know it must be really hard for you right now, especially being very pregnant. I remember how emotional and hormonal I could be when pregnant and BF! Having an unsupportive H makes it even worse! I hope you continue to try and detach, do your 180s, and GALs (even if it's just hanging out at a bookstore!). Try to keep that PMA and not let your H's attitude affect you, because stress and anxiety is not good for you or your baby. The good news is that your baby will be here soon and I will tell you that it is a lot of hard work (especially the first few months!), but it gets so much better (and easier) as time goes on and is the best thing that will ever happen to you. My S makes me so happy and I love him more than I can even describe in words. Congratulations on the baby and good luck with your sitch!