Hey there. Have a bit of spare time so will update. Things seem OK between H and I for the most part.
I am currently busy with some seasonal tax work which will keep me in a job for the next few months. H is still working in his casual job but looking for better prospects.
One thing that particularly worries me about H is his lack of interest in pursuing activities with me.
It seems he dangles a carrot occasionally and offers to take me somewhere, otherwise I spend time alone or GALing. I organised dinner with friends last night. He, very strangely, snapped at me on the way home, suggesting I had to have everything my own way and it wasn't a good evening for him to go out because he had to start work early in the morning. Gee, we were home by 9.30!! Party animals!! I responded that in future I wouldn't organise anything which involved him and he could spend the time in front of the TV by himself. He was silent the rest of the way home. He was pouting at home and took himself off to bed without a word.
Even though I don't expect things to be perfect between us all the time, I find those attacks by him are completely unwarranted. He misunderstands my intentions, which are simply to enjoy some time together. I feel that he looks at it as a chore and not something he looks forward to. I am left wondering again..what I am doing? Wasting my time with a boring workaholic who spends his spare time playing golf or watching TV.
I am really trying hard to look at things from his point of view, but I don't get what the problem is with him and this issue? I guess its just him and he will never be any different?
