Glad to hear I've not been too hard on you I think it's a good idea at the moment to stay out of his way, either going into another room or going out for the evening. I know what you mean about being around him and wanting him to stay and be a family again. I do that all the time when H is about. That's the hardest part about 180 is staying away from them when they are in the same house as you. My H follows me around the house and on occasions so have I. I hope I get the 180ing soon, I keep missing bits out, lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!