You really are an expert DRer now and it looks like its for life!
Funny, your story reminds me of a thought I had last night and an observation I have made. I've known this all my life but in these hyper tense situations it is even more important. Diffusing these times with positive reinforcement, compliments, playfulness, and humor are so important and yield much better results. Not only does it take the pressure off them, but it shows how mature you are as well! Great job!
The proverbial honey draws more flies than vinegar.
I think IC is great for personal enrichment as long as you feel your IC is aligned with your objectives. You know how dangerous they can be to someone that is questioning their own position. Make sure they support your objectives, you are the client, not them.
Lots of others have felt the resentment once piecing has begun, I really think Sage and Talista have great attitudes. Underdog too, she is great.
