well here is where I am now...my daughters are with W...they were with me for 3 weeks and I asked W if she could keep them for another two weeks...she freaked out and started complaining about schedule and such...I know we need to have but in the summer when you have family visiting it is hard...right now I have the girls 2 weeks to her 1 week and it is hard for me to get out and get a life...I initially agreed to it because the girls wanted it so bad and I felt that the less the girls were around OM the better as he is not that kid friendly. So any opinions? I think we need to go back to one week with me one week with her...kids don't like that, they would rather be with me...but I feel like after a year into this I need to get moving...W tells me I can always use her parents for watching the kids as they live up the street from me but I don't want to do that as much


m-12 yrs
m-42
w-40
d-11
d6