That was a good response to W. there is no downside to trying to repay your loans, even a dollar at a time if you're broke. Dont make excuses anymore. You will gain respect of your creditor, yourself, and who knows maybe your w too.

The fact that it was the topic of a rare email means that debt is relevant to her opinion of you. So, good job! Back up your words with actions.

Do not rely on family for being a go-between or confidant. This keeps you focused on the wrong side of the equation. For now, try to detach and focus on you. Let w be lonely or whatever all by herself, dont think about it.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.