Well that last one came in very late and I waited a couple hours before responding. most of the time i wait until the next day. It really is funny how u said she would be contacting me and sure enuff not one but two emails. Her daughter called me and told me she might be lonely as her son and the rest of the family has gone out of town. And I did reinforce to her daughter I would be paying back the owed money myself. If you noticed my WAW said "we" 3 times. Also trying I wanted to mention since her daughter speaks to me and doesn't want us to get divorced she backtracked on what she told me 2 months ago. Her daughter karrie told me that she was 99.9% sure mom was going to divorce me. She had said this more than once to me. Now , as of last night she has done a 180 on that statement. Now, I trust karrie but to say thats not what she meant or that I misunderstood is curious to say the least. I mean you have to look into these things while DBing right? Karrie knows i want things to work out with her mother but I have told her more recently I can only control what I am doing and do the best I can for me, (the DBing thing) well, back to pressure cleaning the house....