I agree with Cat you should start trying to heal now. Limbo does not exist only if you let it.

I agree with your judgement regarding the first 2 therapist. My understanding is there are 2 ongoing theories in marriage counseling 1. you should be true to yourself and your personally happiness. D maybe necessary for you to find your true happiness.

2. Marriage (as all things in life) take work. You need to work on the problems in your marriage and then decide whether its right for you. If you dont work on it you will never know if the problems were solvable.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13