Stillhope, haven't caught up on your entire story but very sorry to hear about the recent developments.
Can certainly understand the pain you are feeling (been there, still am at times) and only you will know when you have done everything you can and are truly ready to go LRT. When you are there, all here will support you in your decision......
That being said, the letter you mention appears to include some information that may not be required at this point and may leave the W feeling different than you intend.
I would suggest "sitting" with the letter a little longer before sending it......
Stay strong and keep posting!
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork
