You are doing good, remember focus on the positives like you said earlier. I agree with Carrie on the cave part, you know how us men like their quiet time! Is he always watching sportscenter when hes in there? Doing what he likes doing?
I also like what Karen pointed out, make it more inviting for him to come back to the room. New sheets? Comfortorer? A tv in there? What would it be?
