Hi Christine...I'm a long-time lurker on your thread. Very happy for you! As for the guest room issue, I would just apply the patience principle there, too. My W got in the habit of not sleeping with me for a while, then got back into it. Now, when one of us is coughing or snoring, whoever is bothered will go away, but we always come back. I love sleeping with my wife, but wish we did more than just sleep in our bed. I'm in the SSM forum, for good reason.

You done good, girl. Keep up the good DBing.