Hi Christine...I'm a long-time lurker on your thread. Very happy for you! As for the guest room issue, I would just apply the patience principle there, too. My W got in the habit of not sleeping with me for a while, then got back into it. Now, when one of us is coughing or snoring, whoever is bothered will go away, but we always come back. I love sleeping with my wife, but wish we did more than just sleep in our bed. I'm in the SSM forum, for good reason.