Hey Christine- My DB buddy!! Glad to see that you are still keeping things in perspective and continuing to monitor and look for baby steps. I think that this will always be important because it will help you to not take things for granted and realize how far you've come.
As far as the guest room, I'll just give my opinion since I don't have any experience to back it up. I'd say it's just a little left-over alien. The guest room is his cave and he's not quite ready to come out yet. I think you are doing good to not make it a big deal, and just appreciate the baby steps. He will come out when he's ready, and when he does you will be waiting for him.
