Today I want to count my blessings. I don't want to ever take things for granted again. I used to post like crazy when things were bad abd biw that things are looking up, I should continue to set goals and look for baby steps.
Last evening H and I went out to dinner. He picked the restaurant and we had a nice evening. During the dinner, he said that he likes the salads that I make at home better. Did I hear correctly? I believe that he is making an effort to compliment me! This is so sweet! Baby steps keep happening even after the "miracle" reconciliation.
I keep forgetting to mention this and I'd like to get any opinions. After the bomb in November, my H moved into the guest room. He was really weird about "his" room. It was his sanctuary. He didn't even allow me to come in. He would close the door and instruct me to leave him alone. He said that he needed his "space".
Now that we've had our "miracle" he still sleeps in there. He doesn't call it "his" room any more...it's back to being the guest room. I think that he got in the habit of sleeping in the room and I haven't really pushed the issue. Last night, after dinner, he asked me to join him and we talked and fell asleep. AFter a couple of hours, he asked me nicely to leave. He said that he sleeps better alone but he would like for us to sleep together this weekend. Is this weird to anyone or am I making something of nothing? Do I need to just look for baby steps like with everything else?
Christine
I am the master of creating positive energy and love in my own environment. I am the source of love in my life. It starts with me! This energy radiates from me! It gives me strength, courage, wisdom and grace!