I absorbed every little detail of the trip description and tried to imagine being there as you wrestle with whether to honor H's concerns or go ahead with fun planned activity to the beach.
I pictured watching you two at the museum laughing and talking and standing closely as you enjoyed your two boys!
It sounds wonderful in all the little ways you and your H are being more comfortable with one another. Remember how long it has taken my H to give up replay activities? It seems like eons at the time!
It's a sure thing that OW is just squirming in her size 18 pants! She has to be just flaming jealous of you personally, of your skills as a mother (she obviously isn't using her mothering or wifely skills well right now), and of your continual draw of attraction for your H.
And I don't think your H texts everything! He surely didn't say he crawled in bed with you for comfort and didn't bother to put any clothes on!
That's such a good thing he has that level of trust and comfort with you!
I'm excited how this will play out...but there's a lot more DBing to be done along the way.
So happy you had a great trip and were able to analyze the positive aspects of it. It will give you strength and courage for the next days ahead.
rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
