Don't try to guess what she's going to do, this is not chess and that's how people end up in crazy messes, each trying to outsmart the other. There is no scorecard.

Stop worrying about whether she's playing you. You only need be concerned about how you respond which should be consistent, dignified and respectful.

I agree about the L. I'd also continue to email because you will most likely not be as calm in her presence and you have a record of what was agreed to.

If you haven't already sent the email, I would just reiterate what this weekend's plan is and tell her you need to think about weekends going forward.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss