Originally Posted By: MrCAS
Leave it at the video. What was nice about that is the you took the effort to make it just for him. Obviously, it set well with him. Anything more might be just piling on after the whistle.

Asking for his opinion is respectful. Respect is part of validating.


Thanks MrCAS smile

For me it's so awkward not being there for his birthday and doing something.
Just doesn't seem normal/natural, but I guess in time it will become so...

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope