You really have a great attitude and life now! I have really noticed a HUGE increase in confidence and self-esteem from your thread since the beginning, but I think a lot of us do, isn't that the key to good DRing? Knowing that we are the key to our own happiness and less dependent and reactionary to our WAS?

I would say the confirmation is in the house refinancing and all of those other things they refer to in future talk. I can't understand why they won't just want to clean up to move on instead of leaving these half answered questions everywhere but when you get to that point, I'm sure you will know when the WAS will want to talk about it. Great job Christine, you are doing great!