I happen to know K in the "real world" and she refers to you as the "uk person who is trying to help me", so no worries.
My concern is that through the last few posts K did feel intimidated and told me she doesn't plan to post here anymore. I personally feel this forum could be of great help to her and hope she changes her mind. I posted on her thread to show her some support and to let her know about the "notify" option. I have not "notified" for her because I hope she will decide on her own, and do so if she wants.
My fondest hope for K is that she 180s and begins to take care of herself, both here and in the real world.
She told me she had posted an "angry" post. Lol, she gave me the impression it was downright nasty. Imagine my surprise to read her most recent post... if that's as "nasty" as you can get, well, oh my. LOL
But K, it is NOT nasty or wrong to stand up for yourself. It is good and right to say "I feel hurt by what you said. I feel you crossed a line."
Take care.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
