So it has been some time since I last posted. Life has become its own normal with new routines etc. I am continuing to work on me and give my best to my boy. We have been doing a lot of outdoor stuff like hiking that we are both loving. We are having new exciting little adventures every weekend. It is awesome having these times with him.
There has been much more peace between W and I, and we are talking on the phone almost daily. My feeling is to just be, and let her make any decisions that she needs to. There is no rush to do anything else. I had set some pretty strong boundaries with her, things that mostly related to the affair. She was upset at first but has been reaching out and communicating more lately.
My path is to keep working on my changes and being the best me, if W decides to start making her needed changes while reconnecting with me, then we can work on that if/when it happens.
Not much else going on, life is good.
Me-36 W-31 M-7 S-5 BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand
Seeking means: to have a goal Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal