Thanks for your support. It was such a small thing compared to the lies and unfaithfulness. I don't know why I let it bother me so much. The strange thing is I didn't have any expectations, not even of him answering me when I said good night. After a good night's sleep I think it was a good sign that I felt anger towards him instead of hurt, and that he could see my disgust and anger. Baby steps towards a better PMA that belongs only to me. I'll check out those authors Betsey, thanks.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17