I have been focusing on myself and the children, tough with time and a very tight budget.

It is my daughters 5 birthday today, she is staying with me this morning and goes to WAS this afternoon. She is on school holidays. Last night d asked me to come to birthday dinner, I knew nothing about it so texted WAS. WAS said I should not come and I was coming to her party on weekend.

My view is if D wants me there then I should go. WAS view is D wants us together and both going to dinner will give her false hope. D will always want that.

I think I should go, please help me with this one.

Me 44
WAS 41
T 11
S 8
D 5
DB November 2012
EA and PA discovered December 2012
WAS moved out 4 May 2013
Share residence of S and D 50/50
WAS moves in with OM 1 September 2013.